THE NECESSARILY BIBLICAL POST……
DO YOUR BEST WITH THIS
THAT YE MAY SEE
THAT YE MAY HEAR
THAT YE MAY GROK…….
THERE IS MORE TO COME
FROM HERE AND THERE
AND EVERYWHERE…
BUT THIS IS ALL FOR NOW
PAST THEN
AND FUTURE THEN
WILL COME
AS ORDERED……
DO YOUR BEST……..:
{BIG, HUGE, DIVINE SMILE…..HERE AND NOW…}
John answered, “No one can receive anything except what has been given from heaven.” (John 3:27)
Abide in me as I abide in you. Just as the branch cannot bear fruit by itself unless it abides in the vine, neither can you unless you abide in me. I am the vine, you are the branches. Those who abide in me and I in them bear much fruit, because apart from me you can do nothing. (John 15:4–5)
John 5:19-23 King James Version (KJV)
19 Then answered Jesus and said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, The Son can do nothing of himself, but what he seeth the Father do: for what things soever he doeth, these also doeth the Son likewise.
20 For the Father loveth the Son, and sheweth him all things that himself doeth: and he will shew him greater works than these, that ye may marvel.
21 For as the Father raiseth up the dead, and quickeneth them; even so the Son quickeneth whom he will.
22 For the Father judgeth no man, but hath committed all judgment unto the Son:
23 That all men should honour the Son, even as they honour the Father. He that honoureth not the Son honoureth not the Father which hath sent him.
King James Version (KJV)
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JOHN 9:KJV….
1 And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth.
2 And his disciples asked him, saying, Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?
3 Jesus answered, Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him.
4 I must work the works of him that sent me, while it is day: the night cometh, when no man can work.
5 As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world.
6 When he had thus spoken, he spat on the ground, and made clay of the spittle, and he anointed the eyes of the blind man with the clay,
7 And said unto him, Go, wash in the pool of Siloam, (which is by interpretation, Sent.) He went his way therefore, and washed, and came seeing.
8 The neighbours therefore, and they which before had seen him that he was blind, said, Is not this he that sat and begged?
9 Some said, This is he: others said, He is like him: but he said, I am he.
10 Therefore said they unto him, How were thine eyes opened?
11 He answered and said, A man that is called Jesus made clay, and anointed mine eyes, and said unto me, Go to the pool of Siloam, and wash: and I went and washed, and I received sight.
12 Then said they unto him, Where is he? He said, I know not.
13 They brought to the Pharisees him that aforetime was blind.
14 And it was the sabbath day when Jesus made the clay, and opened his eyes.
15 Then again the Pharisees also asked him how he had received his sight. He said unto them, He put clay upon mine eyes, and I washed, and do see.
16 Therefore said some of the Pharisees, This man is not of God, because he keepeth not the sabbath day. Others said, How can a man that is a sinner do such miracles? And there was a division among them.
17 They say unto the blind man again, What sayest thou of him, that he hath opened thine eyes? He said, He is a prophet.
18 But the Jews did not believe concerning him, that he had been blind, and received his sight, until they called the parents of him that had received his sight.
19 And they asked them, saying, Is this your son, who ye say was born blind? how then doth he now see?
20 His parents answered them and said, We know that this is our son, and that he was born blind:
21 But by what means he now seeth, we know not; or who hath opened his eyes, we know not: he is of age; ask him: he shall speak for himself.
22 These words spake his parents, because they feared the Jews: for the Jews had agreed already, that if any man did confess that he was Christ, he should be put out of the synagogue.
23 Therefore said his parents, He is of age; ask him.
24 Then again called they the man that was blind, and said unto him, Give God the praise: we know that this man is a sinner.
25 He answered and said, Whether he be a sinner or no, I know not: one thing I know, that, whereas I was blind, now I see.
26 Then said they to him again, What did he to thee? how opened he thine eyes?
27 He answered them, I have told you already, and ye did not hear: wherefore would ye hear it again? will ye also be his disciples?
28 Then they reviled him, and said, Thou art his disciple; but we are Moses’ disciples.
29 We know that God spake unto Moses: as for this fellow, we know not from whence he is.
30 The man answered and said unto them, Why herein is a marvellous thing, that ye know not from whence he is, and yet he hath opened mine eyes.
31 Now we know that God heareth not sinners: but if any man be a worshipper of God, and doeth his will, him he heareth.
32 Since the world began was it not heard that any man opened the eyes of one that was born blind.
33 If this man were not of God, he could do nothing.
34 They answered and said unto him, Thou wast altogether born in sins, and dost thou teach us? And they cast him out.
35 Jesus heard that they had cast him out; and when he had found him, he said unto him, Dost thou believe on the Son of God?
36 He answered and said, Who is he, Lord, that I might believe on him?
38 And he said, Lord, I believe. And he worshipped him.
39 And Jesus said, For judgment I am come into this world, that they which see not might see; and that they which see might be made blind.
40 And some of the Pharisees which were with him heard these words, and said unto him, Are we blind also?
41 Jesus said unto them, If ye were blind, ye should have no sin: but now ye say, We see; therefore your sin remaineth.
37 And Jesus said unto him, Thou hast both seen him, and it is he that talketh with thee.
John
Chapter 10
1 Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that entereth not by the door into the sheepfold, but climbeth up some other way, the same is a thief and a robber.
2 But he that entereth in by the door is the shepherd of the sheep.
3 To him the porter openeth; and the sheep hear his voice: and he calleth his own sheep by name, and leadeth them out.
4 And when he putteth forth his own sheep, he goeth before them, and the sheep follow him: for they know his voice.
5 And a stranger will they not follow, but will flee from him: for they know not the voice of strangers.
6 This parable spake Jesus unto them: but they understood not what things they were which he spake unto them.
7 Then said Jesus unto them again, Verily, verily, I say unto you, I am the door of the sheep.
8 All that ever came before me are thieves and robbers: but the sheep did not hear them.
9 I am the door: by me if any man enter in, he shall be saved, and shall go in and out, and find pasture.
10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
11 I am the good shepherd: the good shepherd giveth his life for the sheep.
12 But he that is an hireling, and not the shepherd, whose own the sheep are not, seeth the wolf coming, and leaveth the sheep, and fleeth: and the wolf catcheth them, and scattereth the sheep.
13 The hireling fleeth, because he is an hireling, and careth not for the sheep.
14 I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine.
15 As the Father knoweth me, even so know I the Father: and I lay down my life for the sheep.
16 And other sheep I have, which are not of this fold: them also I must bring, and they shall hear my voice; and there shall be one fold, and one shepherd.
17 Therefore doth my Father love me, because I lay down my life, that I might take it again.
18 No man taketh it from me, but I lay it down of myself. I have power to lay it down, and I have power to take it again. This commandment have I received of my Father.
19 There was a division therefore again among the Jews for these sayings.
20 And many of them said, He hath a devil, and is mad; why hear ye him?
21 Others said, These are not the words of him that hath a devil. Can a devil open the eyes of the blind?
22 And it was at Jerusalem the feast of the dedication, and it was winter.
23 And Jesus walked in the temple in Solomon’s porch.
24 Then came the Jews round about him, and said unto him, How long dost thou make us to doubt? If thou be the Christ, tell us plainly.
25 Jesus answered them, I told you, and ye believed not: the works that I do in my Father’s name, they bear witness of me.
26 But ye believe not, because ye are not of my sheep, as I said unto you.
27 My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me:
28 And I give unto them eternal life; and they shall never perish, neither shall any man pluck them out of my hand.
29 My Father, which gave them me, is greater than all; and no man is able to pluck them out of my Father’s hand.
30 I and my Father are one.
31 Then the Jews took up stones again to stone him.
32 Jesus answered them, Many good works have I shewed you from my Father; for which of those works do ye stone me?
33 The Jews answered him, saying, For a good work we stone thee not; but for blasphemy; and because that thou, being a man, makest thyself God.
34 Jesus answered them, Is it not written in your law, I said, Ye are gods?
35 If he called them gods, unto whom the word of God came, and the scripture cannot be broken;
36 Say ye of him, whom the Father hath sanctified, and sent into the world, Thou blasphemest; because I said, I am the Son of God?
37 If I do not the works of my Father, believe me not.
38 But if I do, though ye believe not me, believe the works: that ye may know, and believe, that the Father is in me, and I in him.
39 Therefore they sought again to take him: but he escaped out of their hand,
40 And went away again beyond Jordan into the place where John at first baptized; and there he abode.
41 And many resorted unto him, and said, John did no miracle: but all things that John spake of this man were true.
42 And many believed on him there.
John 14:10
“Believest thou not that I am in the Father, and the Father in me? the words that I speak unto you I speak not of myself: but the Father that dwelleth in me, he doeth the works
Luke 10:22
“All things are delivered to me of my Father: and no man knoweth who the Son is, but the Father; and who the Father is, but the Son, and he to whom the Son will reveal him.”
Mark 12:31 Context
28And one of the scribes came, and having heard them reasoning together, and perceiving that he had answered them well, asked him, Which is the first commandment of all? 29And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord: 30And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. 31And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these. 32And the scribe said unto him, Well, Master, thou hast said the truth: for there is one God; and there is none other but he: 33And to love him with all the heart, and with all the understanding, and with all the soul, and with all the strength, and to love his neighbour as himself, is more than all whole burnt offerings and sacrifices. 34And when Jesus saw that he answered discreetly, he said unto him, Thou art not far from the kingdom of God. And no man after that durst ask him any question.
1 John 4:20
“If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?”
1 John 4:12
“No man hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us.”
John 14 – 16
Now viewing scripture range from the book of John chapter 14 through chapter 16…
John Chapter 14
1 Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me.
2 In my Father’s house are many mansions: if [it were] not [so], I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.
3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, [there] ye may be also.
4 And whither I go ye know, and the way ye know.
5 Thomas saith unto him, Lord, we know not whither thou goest; and how can we know the way?
6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
7 If ye had known me, ye should have known my Father also: and from henceforth ye know him, and have seen him.
8 Philip saith unto him, Lord, shew us the Father, and it sufficeth us.
9 Jesus saith unto him, Have I been so long time with you, and yet hast thou not known me, Philip? he that hath seen me hath seen the Father; and how sayest thou [then], Shew us the Father?
10 Believest thou not that I am in the Father, and the Father in me? the words that I speak unto you I speak not of myself: but the Father that dwelleth in me, he doeth the works.
11 Believe me that I [am] in the Father, and the Father in me: or else believe me for the very works’ sake.
12 Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me, the works that I do shall he do also; and greater [works] than these shall he do; because I go unto my Father.
13 And whatsoever ye shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
14 If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do [it].
15 If ye love me, keep my commandments.
16 And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever;
17 [Even] the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.
18 I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you.
19 Yet a little while, and the world seeth me no more; but ye see me: because I live, ye shall live also.
20 At that day ye shall know that I [am] in my Father, and ye in me, and I in you.
21 He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.
22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world?
23 Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.
24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father’s which sent me.
25 These things have I spoken unto you, being [yet] present with you.
26 But the Comforter, [which is] the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
27 Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
28 Ye have heard how I said unto you, I go away, and come [again] unto you. If ye loved me, ye would rejoice, because I said, I go unto the Father: for my Father is greater than I.
29 And now I have told you before it come to pass, that, when it is come to pass, ye might believe.
30 Hereafter I will not talk much with you: for the prince of this world cometh, and hath nothing in me.
31 But that the world may know that I love the Father; and as the Father gave me commandment, even so I do. Arise, let us go hence.
John Chapter 15
1 I am the true vine, and my Father is the husbandman.
2 Every branch in me that beareth not fruit he taketh away: and every [branch] that beareth fruit, he purgeth it, that it may bring forth more fruit.
3 Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.
4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.
5 I am the vine, ye [are] the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.
6 If a man abide not in me, he is cast forth as a branch, and is withered; and men gather them, and cast [them] into the fire, and they are burned.
7 If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.
8 Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples.
9 As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love.
10 If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father’s commandments, and abide in his love.
11 These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and [that] your joy might be full.
12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.
13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
15 Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you.
16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and [that] your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.
17 These things I command you, that ye love one another.
18 If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before [it hated] you.
19 If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.
20 Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also.
21 But all these things will they do unto you for my name’s sake, because they know not him that sent me.
22 If I had not come and spoken unto them, they had not had sin: but now they have no cloke for their sin.
23 He that hateth me hateth my Father also.
24 If I had not done among them the works which none other man did, they had not had sin: but now have they both seen and hated both me and my Father.
25 But [this cometh to pass], that the word might be fulfilled that is written in their law, They hated me without a cause.
26 But when the Comforter is come, whom I will send unto you from the Father, [even] the Spirit of truth, which proceedeth from the Father, he shall testify of me:
27 And ye also shall bear witness, because ye have been with me from the beginning.
John Chapter 16
1 These things have I spoken unto you, that ye should not be offended.
2 They shall put you out of the synagogues: yea, the time cometh, that whosoever killeth you will think that he doeth God service.
3 And these things will they do unto you, because they have not known the Father, nor me.
4 But these things have I told you, that when the time shall come, ye may remember that I told you of them. And these things I said not unto you at the beginning, because I was with you.
5 But now I go my way to him that sent me; and none of you asketh me, Whither goest thou?
6 But because I have said these things unto you, sorrow hath filled your heart.
7 Nevertheless I tell you the truth; It is expedient for you that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come unto you; but if I depart, I will send him unto you.
8 And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment:
9 Of sin, because they believe not on me;
10 Of righteousness, because I go to my Father, and ye see me no more;
11 Of judgment, because the prince of this world is judged.
12 I have yet many things to say unto you, but ye cannot bear them now.
13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, [that] shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.
14 He shall glorify me: for he shall receive of mine, and shall shew [it] unto you.
15 All things that the Father hath are mine: therefore said I, that he shall take of mine, and shall shew [it] unto you.
16 A little while, and ye shall not see me: and again, a little while, and ye shall see me, because I go to the Father.
17 Then said [some] of his disciples among themselves, What is this that he saith unto us, A little while, and ye shall not see me: and again, a little while, and ye shall see me: and, Because I go to the Father?
18 They said therefore, What is this that he saith, A little while? we cannot tell what he saith.
19 Now Jesus knew that they were desirous to ask him, and said unto them, Do ye enquire among yourselves of that I said, A little while, and ye shall not see me: and again, a little while, and ye shall see me?
20 Verily, verily, I say unto you, That ye shall weep and lament, but the world shall rejoice: and ye shall be sorrowful, but your sorrow shall be turned into joy.
21 A woman when she is in travail hath sorrow, because her hour is come: but as soon as she is delivered of the child, she remembereth no more the anguish, for joy that a man is born into the world.
22 And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.
23 And in that day ye shall ask me nothing. Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my name, he will give [it] you.
24 Hitherto have ye asked nothing in my name: ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be full.
25 These things have I spoken unto you in proverbs: but the time cometh, when I shall no more speak unto you in proverbs, but I shall shew you plainly of the Father.
26 At that day ye shall ask in my name: and I say not unto you, that I will pray the Father for you:
27 For the Father himself loveth you, because ye have loved me, and have believed that I came out from God.
28 I came forth from the Father, and am come into the world: again, I leave the world, and go to the Father.
29 His disciples said unto him, Lo, now speakest thou plainly, and speakest no proverb.
30 Now are we sure that thou knowest all things, and needest not that any man should ask thee: by this we believe that thou camest forth from God.
31 Jesus answered them, Do ye now believe?
32 Behold, the hour cometh, yea, is now come, that ye shall be scattered, every man to his own, and shall leave me alone: and yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me.
33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.
AND SO IT TRULY AND REALLY BEGINS……… (-I-)
Kibodabi 
SUCCESSFUL COMMUNICATION MEANS RECOGNIZING AND CLEARLY DEFINING “INNER” EXPECTATIONS
5/18/91 SANANDA
Greetings, precious Druthea. We are Sananda, Lord Michael and St. Germain. We come in the service of Holy God/Aton of Light and The Creation.
We will begin this day with the challenge of peeling away the “barriers” to successful communication in your “human” languages by efforting to show you how you can stretch the limitations of human language to achieve clearer and more succinct communication ability with one another.
Because “Universal Language” has no limiting “words”, it is God’s perfect language.
When beings communicate in Universal language, there is no way to “lie” to yourself or another about your intent, since it is the language which utilizes pure thought from that which is “in the heart/spirit” as…feeling.
So the key to more successful communication on your plane is to learn to fully understand HOW you feel about a circumstance before you.
Now, emotion is defined as, “A strong surge of FEELING, as of love, hate, or fear.” So by understanding and identifying your feeling accurately, you will find that YOUR perceptions and beliefs about any given circumstance will bring up certain emotional feelings. First, you must correctly determine which emotion you actually do feel. For example, when you correctly determine that you are afraid, then you must determine WHY you are afraid in order for you to successfully resolve it. Fear is a feeling one has generally when he feels threatened in some way.
Every emotion is SHOWING you something… a lesson to be understood, or a sustaining need we all have, such as absolute/unconditional LOVE. For example, when you are touched by some act or behavior done for you or another in kindness which absolute love expresses, you feel JOY and UNITY.
On the other hand, when you are angry or hurt about something someone said or did “to” you and you fail to identify ACTUALLY WHY you feel this way, then you will be unable to communicate effectively to “clarify” what may perhaps be a misperception on your part.
Then most often, unresolved anger and hurt will actually propel you to respond in a variety of “punishing” behaviors directed toward self, the other who you perceived caused you pain, ALL others with whom you come in contact, or all of the above.
One of the common ways ones respond irresponsibly, which we discussed previously, is through “passive-resistant” behavior, in which one is afraid or simply unwilling to confront the person honestly about his anger and/or hurt feelings and therefore seeks indirect ways to punish the perceived perpetrator against him.
Others of you ones respond most directly in your anger and hurt to the perceived perpetrator, and then, of course, when ones begin arguing about WHO is RIGHT and WHO is WRONG, nothing is solved, and resentment begins to establish itself most firmly, especially when ones stubbornly refuse to search the common ground of cause which allows self-understanding of MUTUAL responsibility of the circumstance.
When mutual understanding of each “point of perception” is accomplished for each, then a satisfying resolution, which recognizes joint responsibility of forgiveness and release of the “error”, can be reached. Of course, both must wish to resolve the issue between them, for if one’s objective is to deny responsibility and continue to blame and punish, then THEY must deal with what is now their PROBLEM on their own.
The others must stand firm with integrity to not allow themselves to be PULLED down or into an emotional drama of one who is unwilling to reasonably resolve their problem.
Now, feeling anger and hurt is definitely a most uncomfortable place to be, in that one will feel isolated, separated and rejected, and so his “altered” ego will urge him to cast blame outside of self. Many of you have most likely heard the saying or even have personally felt like it, “It is ME against the World”. It is not a comfortable feeling to feel unsupported and “victimized” and so it is up to YOU to learn to set aside “Altered” Ego perceptions so that you can successfully uncover HOW you have contributed to the cause of this “victim” self-separation and/or misunderstanding with another.
One of the challenges you ones have in your interrelationships is responsible communication.
In order to communicate responsibly, YOU each must become acutely in touch with WHY you feel these “negative” emotions, such as fear, anger, jealousy and resentment.
For example, many of you ones often use “sarcastic humor” to state your true feelings, let off “steam” and yet still “hide” the feelings. Many of your so-called comedians have successfully used cutting, sarcastic and sardonic jokes to tell the world or even particular others HOW they really feel about them…and then, of course, they call it humor.
They behave as if it’s okay to call it a “joke” because they assume it is less painful to the ones the sarcasm is directed, only deep inside, THEY KNOW IT IS NOT LESS PAINFULL AT ALL.
Ones who USE sarcasm in their communication, whether it be comedians or not, must recognize they most often harbor intense feelings of unresolved anger and/or unworthiness and they desire to feel superior by causing pain, somewhat indirectly by calling it “humor”, to others because of these intense unresolved FEELINGS within.
Let’s give you ones a common example of how many of you USE what you call “humor” to express inner hurt and/or superiority/unworthiness.
We have often heard you ones make a sarcastic (An ironical or scornful utterance; contemptuous and taunting language) remark, such as, “When God said brains, you thought He said trains, so that’s why you have no brains”, and then you’ll say, “No, Just Kidding”…ha ha ha.
We have heard so many unkind things said by you ones to each other, and then, “No, I’m just kidding”. Sorry, chelas, MOSTLY YOU ARE NOT “JUST” KIDDING in these circumstances. This is most often a “dig” and usually falls under “passive-resistant” behavior. You have a wondrous cliché in this regard, “Many a TRUTH is said in jest”. So be it.
Now we will discuss expectations, to expect defined as, “1. To look forward to as a certain or probable. 2. To look for as right, proper or necessary. 3. Informal To presume; suppose.”
All of you have expectations, whether you completely understand what they are or not. Of course, for successful communication in your interrelationships, being CLEAR yourself about what are your expectations within any given relationship and/or situation is essential.
Now there are what can be termed “reasonable” or “realistic” expectations as well as
“unreasonable” and “unrealistic” expectations.
For example, there is certainly nothing “wrong” with looking forward to being justly treated, or to making a successful speech. Those are reasonable expectations for one who treats others justly, and one who prepares properly for his speech.
But to expect that others will behave AS YOU would in any given circumstance is most unrealistic. All will behave according to their own inner integrity, or lack thereof, or they will behave according to the dictates of their own individual personality, which may certainly be correct for them, only perhaps not YOUR way. In order to successfully interrelate in harmony and balance, ALL expectations must be acknowledges openly, so that all expectations which are determined reasonable be defined clearly for all. In this way the integrity of your defined common expectations and objectives, such as work objectives, will not be compromised because of unresolved emotions, unrealistic expectations or other allowed misunderstandings.
There are many kinds of what would be termed “social” expectations, such as saying, “Thank you” when someone does something nice for you or serves you in some way. In most all situations, gratitude expressed to another is most reasonable and certainly appreciated, chelas. When you ones GIVE something to another, whether it be a physical gift or something intangible such as friendship, love and support, what Do you expect in return? You are not honest with yourselves, chelas, if you tell yourselves, “I expect nothing.” Because even when you extend YOUR hand in sincere love, kindness and friendship, YOU expect the one you give to, to LIKE you and feel connected to you in return. You want to be a part of their life by letting them know YOU appreciate and support them. YOU enjoy the inner “rewards” of giving which makes someone feel good and appreciated. If the receiver is ungracious to you, face it chelas, you are disappointed and often saddened.
Let us give another example of expectations. When you personally make your commitment to serve GOD, what do you expect in return for your service?
Well, certainly a “reasonable” expectation is that you expect to be guided and sustained, to be protected and fulfilled within your service, do you not? Or what do YOU expect? Do you expect that you need not be responsible for your own behavior? Do you expect your life to be “problem free” and your lessons easier? Do you expect to be more special than your other brothers and sisters? Do you “bargain” with God: you’ll give this, IF he gives that?
We are asking you to really be HONEST with yourselves, chelas, because your “unreasonable” expectations are NEVER met and so it is best to uncover them NOW so that you can find the true PEACE, JOY and BALANCE in your service to God, which reasonable expectations provide for you.
Now, we would like you ones to clearly think about what are your expectations when and if you decide to make your home in Tehachapi? Do you expect spiritual perfection of the ones already committed in service? Do you expect “social” fun and entertainment from Dharma, Oberli, Hatonn, George and Desiree’, and the others here? Do you expect the businesses created by these ones to financially support you, now or in the future? WHY do you wish to be here? To be closer to God, perhaps? Remember, YOU are the temple for God. Do you recognize a purpose for you, perhaps, a way to serve GOD where you are able and willing to do so? Do you expect Hatonn to tell you what you must do as your service to GOD? Do you KNOW what your service is? For we will tell you, as has our beloved brother Hatonn, that Tehachapi is a place to work, of commitment of service to GOD/ATON Our Father, to assist the growth, transition and cleansing of a sick/unbalanced humanity and this beloved planet, Shan. We have a job, and YOU ones who chose to serve God are the hands and feet of HIS Brotherhood of LIGHT. The road is often most painful and precarious for you beloved ones of GOD’s service, most especially emotionally, until you ones learn to detach from others’ often cruel rejection of you and their unwillingness to SEE the truth.
God only asks that YOU do your job to the best of your ability. Do you expect that you WILL? Ponder these things, chelas, for in confronting self-expectations in responsibility, you will unlock that door to the inner peace and fulfillment which has often eluded most of you in your “past” experiences.
TRUST
Now we will discuss a very prominent barrier to successful communication within your interrelationships, and that is TRUTH, defined as, “1. Confident reliance on the integrity, honesty or justice of another; faith. 2. Something committed to one’s care; a charge or responsibility.”
Trust is a most delicate subject in that most all of you have either breached a trust and/or been the “victim” or a breach of trust by others. So as a result, most of you find it difficult to establish complete trust and faith in others whom your share experience with. First of all, many of you now recognize that you, as “common people”, have blindly trusted your government leaders and many of THEM have breached YOUR trust by lying and deceiving you for their own selfish means. So it stands to reason that you NOT give trust blindly or freely to other HUMAN beings until you KNOW of their integrity and intent.
For example, DO YOU DESERVE to be trusted? Are you able to keep the private matters of another who trusts you with sharing them with you, to yourself? Do you respect the privacy of others? Or are you always looking over the fence of others to see what they are doing, which is NONE of your business unless it is harmful to you or impacts you in some way that is not reasonable. Many of you have a very dangerous “habit” of gossiping about and then you wonder WHY you are NOT trusted by others. This is why it is most important that for trust to develop, ones must clearly define what matters are privately shared and a shared commitment of responsible communication is adopted by both or all parties, so that any possible misunderstandings can be ironed out quickly and completely. In true dedicated friendship and the commitment thereof, ones always have the shared objective of achieving mutual trust, support, loyalty and understanding, especially when differences come up for them to manage together.
There is really little else more painful and disappointing than for one of you, who possesses honest integrity within, to establish and nurture a friendship, give your love, loyalty and trust to another and then find that they do not honor and trust you enough to speak honestly to you about their true feelings and instead they spite you behind your back, or even more disheartening, that they have actually USED you for their own selfish means such as to gain money, prestige, sexual conquest or power and NEVER really thought of you as a cherished friend. How many of you now can say that you have trouble trusting others because you have allowed yourself to be USED by choosing the “wrong” person to develop friendship with because they did not have the same degree of commitment to your friendship as did you? This breach of trust occurs often in so-called “Love” relationships and marriages, often after the “lustful” feelings taper off.
So by now you may be contemplating, HOW do you properly solve a perceived “error” or misunderstanding with integrity with one whom you claim as your friend? First of all, you need to acknowledge your feelings, if they be anger, hurt, frustration or whatever, and then you must set up a time to privately and personally talk to the person you have the problem with. Now you must be very careful how you approach the person, since they may not have any idea of what your problem is or their connection with it. Tell them how you’re feeling, “I feel hurt and upset because I wasn’t invited to your family dinner, perhaps I have misunderstood or misinterpreted something, so will you help me to understand your position so that we can resolve this together?” In this way, you have not placed any blame and you have shown that you value the other person by asking them to assist the resolution of what may be simply your own misunderstanding or over-sensitivity, or it may actually be something more than you have understood, from your friend’s point of perception, perhaps that this one was irritated with you about something you did, or he just simply felt it was not necessary for you to be there at that time.
Now, in business, there are MANY expectations which ones have about operating their business with integrity. For example, when you purchase a product by phone or mail, do you not EXPECT to receive it within a reasonable time-frame and in good condition? Many things can happen between the time you order and when you (hopefully) receive your order. Many business owners want to keep your business by insuring customer satisfaction, so they have a policy of “The customer is always right.” Well, that is not necessarily true, is it? What about ones who purchase items, such as books, from you on agreed upon terms, such as 10 days or 30 days,–DO you not expect them to pay you in full within that time frame? Interestingly enough, MANY businesses, even when given and they have agreed to 30 day payment terms, have a policy that THEY do not pay before 60 or even 90 days. Is this operating business with integrity? So it has become not reasonable within your current business society to TRUST ones, especially NEW customers, to pay you for products they purchase. Yet many retail business-persons become indignant when asked to pre-pay for their purchase and often will simply not buy, unless THEY need the items perhaps to fill a special order for one of their customers. And why do many book-stores, for example, balk when asked to pre-pay? Because they do not know whether or not the books will sell within a 30-day time-frame and “need” the time to return the funds from actual sales to the publisher or distributor. Now America West, for example, has perhaps a little over a dozen of their total “open” resale accounts who are responsible and really do pay in full within the agreed-upon time-frame. The rest do not honor their agreement with America West and several have NEVER paid their balance, so because of this, America West, in order to continue to pay its printing and overhead expenses now ASKS all new resale accounts to pre-pay with no MINIMUM order required and NO returns allowed. Do you blame them? It is interesting to note that many book-stores and distributors expect to be able to RETURN unsold books, as well as, take 30 days to 6 months to pay for them. So then, of course, the RISK of loss is entirely in the publishers hands. So you ponder this, chelas, IS that reasonable?
Now, how many of you have or know someone who has purchased something, say from a department store, and then a year later ask to RETURN it? How many of you have or know someone who has purchased an expensive dress, for a special occasion, and after wearing it, they return it? This is very common, even with middle class and upper middle class women who are in the “social” set and can “afford” to pay for the dress. Well, many department stores have “caught on” to this practice and now DO NOT ALLOW returns for certain dressy attire. Do you understand, chelas, what we are efforting to show you here? Many ones simply do not behave with integrity, and it has become ACCEPTABLE to many ones to behave this way! Many simply do not KNOW better and even brag about HOW they take advantage of businesses. So ones who do wish to operate with integrity and responsibility must EXPECT a degree of dishonesty from a percentage of business customers. Many businesses have a special term for this expected percentage of loss, theft and damaged products; they call it normal shrinkage. The results, if shrinkage become unreasonable, are often higher prices to the customer, if the business wishes to stay in business. How sad it is that so many have become slaves to this beast of selfish deception and deceit.
However, you will find, precious chelas, that as you align yourself in service to GOD, your conscience will not allow you to get away with any sort of unbalanced behavior, without some careful and often difficult contemplation of the consequences thereof. So be it.
Thank you, precious chelas, for your attention. Druthea, you are most blessed in your loving and giving service unto Our Father. Thank you, precious little sister of ours. We are Sananda, Lord Michael and St. Germain. We come in the service of Holy God/Aton of Light and The Creation. May you walk in the peace which true knowledge and understanding brings.
Salu.
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Source: PHOENIX JOURNAL EXPRESS, May 1991, Volume 13, Number 8, Pages 3-5.
Click to access 13-08.pdf
Transcribed into HTML format by R. Montana.
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I tried reading the bible… a gift given to me by the Jehovah’s witness’s here in town but I got to the part about the plagues and such, the Jehovah’s witness said, to the Egyptians the insects we’re gods and they couldn’t even move around without killing their god’s (stepping on them in their homes, due to there being so many). This didn’t gel with me because I do my best to respect the animal/insect/plant/mineral kingdoms and with the Witness’s, it always seemed like Jehovah was always right and knew best about everything but at the same time he was vengeful at times and told Israelites to kill other people, I honestly don’t know the whole Jehovah thing, it’s something I’d have to meditate on, the past seems murky and a lot of star brothers coming and going back than and people not making such wise decisions (ETs included) but ya the old testament seems a lil to outdated for me, some things just need to be left in the past as foolish decisions imho.
Now as to John, I believe Athena has stated it was either John or Peter that was actually written by Mary Magdalene. These are the types of things I have no way of confirming other than meditating a lot on it and if its true to someone well it becomes their reality now doesn’t it? I can agree with a lot of what the bible says, like Psalms for example but some just needs to be tossed out completely imho. I might try reading more but it’s all pretty convoluted to me, maybe some people have put a lot of time into knowing the whole truth of it and what not, I’m just not that person, to me it’s the here and now that matters and doing the inner personal work, I believe a lot can still be gotten from books in the form of inspiration, even fiction can give you a positive attitude, like Star Trek for example, although how much of that is truly fiction is debatable in terms of galactic councils and traveling the stars, etc.
I’ll read these particular verses you posted Kibo and meditate on them, to me its just more pieces of the puzzle/story in a very big puzzle as you have alluded to before, if we want to know the whole truth, we will at some point, when enough people want it and can handle the whole truth, at least that’s my opinion. A lot of alternative historians and archeologists seem to be putting these pieces together but than again maybe they’re just egos chasing their tales trying to prove their particular version of history right… when in truth we create the past, present and future by our thinking and faith in those thoughts, is any of this truly real? maybe it’s all a dream that get’s wiped clean at some point, who’s to say.
On a completely different topic, you sure you don’t want this computer I have? I’m willing to get it fixed up next month, if not the money is going to my “Save for a dog fund”. I’m honestly having a lot of fun playing WoW Classic with friends, I respecced to tank and am enjoying it, I think you’d have fun, could def. see you rolling a Paladin lol, I find as long as I’m meditating and doing the balance work within, I can make time for it and not let the energy become to heavy or light, I just need to take appropriate breaks now and then, maybe you didn’t do that with City of Heroes, it all comes down to striking that balance, even if you were to just play casually I think we’d have fun playing together but hey it’s your call. Not giving it to my little cousin because I don’t think her mom wants me to, she has a Nintendo DS and that takes up her gaming time and her mom worries about school work and what not, once again balance/moderation making anything possible and honestly I think it’d just be down right fun to play with you lol, have a WoW duel instead of one of words >=) hehehe. Any who this is enough for now, please just take the computer even if you can’t make time for a MMO right now, nice just to have a gaming machine to play single player games and what not on, I realize the consoles offer you that as well but I’m gunna start having extra money again next month, CC will be fully paid off. So if you want it, it’s all yours, otherwise it’s just collecting dust in my laundry/storage room. Ok love ya and peace oot for now. *smile*
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THE OLD TESTAMENT SHOULD HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE NEW TESTAMENT, WHICH IS THE TESTAMENT OF CHRIST……..THUS HAVE I POSTED ONLY NEW TESTAMENT SAYINGS. THEY WERE NOT RULED OVER BY THE ANUNNAKI………..
I AM NOT IN A SITUATION WHERE I CAN HAVE THE TIME TO PLAY WOW…..AS MUCH AS I WOULD LIKE TO…….I HAVEN’T SEEN COH IN OVER A YEAR….AND I LOVE THAT GAME……SMILE………APOLOGIES……..MAYB AFTER ALL THIS SHIT GOES DOWN AND IS OVER AND DONE WITH….IF I’M NOT HAVING TO SPRND MOST OF MY TIME DOING HUMANITARIAN WORK…..WHICH I WILL BE…..sigh……It never ends, does it? Service to others in love is a 24/7/365 commitment…..I signed up….I will endure…….so be it…so it is!
Give your cousin the laptop….I will be fine…….I have my work in/with GOD……that is what matters most……..
Just continue to be there for me
when the work of love overwhelms me
and continue to remind me how to keep going in love………
so many that need to be helped
I will be able to help them
whether they love or not
my love must be active and ongoing in order to endure
and bring others, if not all others, to Love of God and Christ….with and within themselves and each other
I know how
the resources to do so will come
this will be a much greater and harder game than I have ever played for real….real life
REAL LIFE
with all MY levels maxed out……..MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA………
FUNFUNFUNFUNFUN……..LOL….
We’ll see
it will not always be fun in the doing and being
but the outcome…….
Helping to make it all happen…..
and experiencing the result……finally!
THAT IS WHAT FUN REALLY IS!!!!!!
such has my life been up to now
so shall it be
always and forever
Selah…….
LOVE YA!!!
GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS IN ALL THINGS ALL THE TIME AND EVERYWHERE!
KIBO
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